Self-Love is the BEST LOVE. Yes it is! It’s not about having a perfect body because we’re all born with imperfections. I should tell you. I’m one of them.

Girl, my lower back is full of stretch marks. I lost count. I just take it as it goes. And I’m okay with it! It breaks my heart when I hear stories about women who went through surgery to have a straighter nose or breast implants.

First of all, you should know a sharp object that goes under your skin is an interruption of growth. Yes, you don’t see the change but it’s there.

Secondly, there is no such thing as a straight nose. A nose is a nose. You’re not a cartoon. And the breast implants? That’s DNA! Go ask your mother why she gave you small cups. And if she don’t have it, ask her where you got it from so you can conduct an investigation.

Don’t go through sharp objects to make you beautiful. Unless it affects your health in some way, you should leave it the way it is. You shouldn’t have to lose weight because your man says, “You would look better if you lost a few pounds.”

Well, I be damned! So, I don’t look better now? It’s bad enough you have your insecurities and someone who ‘loves’ you, says you don’t. If he thinks you should lose weight to impress him, the door is straight down to your left. He can’t miss it!

You’d be surprised how many fishes are in the sea. Just take him by his shirt collar and throw him in the ocean. Let the shark take him. I don’t have time to figure out why you don’t love me. Why? Because I love myself and that’s what matters.

I’m not going to lie. There was a point in my life where I had low self-esteem. It affected me tremendously in high school. I was just always sad. But it was only because I let people get into my mind for free. I started thinking, “Is there something wrong with me?” But the truth is, something was wrong with them.

Love yourself! Embrace every part of you. You don’t need surgery to make you beautiful. And you don’t need a man to tell you that you’re beautiful. By now, you should know you’re gorgeous. You can’t love someone else if you don’t love yourself.

If you don’t love yourself, take the time to see a therapist. There has to be an underlying reason.

God loves you. Your parents love you. Your family loves you. Your priest loves you. The next door neighbor loves you even though she’s nosy as hell. I think you get the point.

Please understand that self-love is a process. It doesn’t come overnight unless you read this blog and had a intervention. My Instagram name is @ispeaktruth102. Follow if you want more inspiration.

As always, you are Beautiful! You are Smart. You are Amazing! Don’t let anyone tell you differently.


2 thoughts on “SELF-LOVE

  1. I love this. It’s very uplifting and informative about the things people are insecure about or don’t talk about. Or just positivity in general.


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